You got all excited and scared when you discovered you were soon a mom to be. The months seemed endless with weeks of going to the bathroom more often than usual, some sleepless nights with backaches that made you sleep on your side, and those untimely snacks at odd hours of the night. Talk about going through hell!
Having a baby is hard. Nevertheless, all these is just the beginning. You nights of going without sleep will still taunt you even after you smiling bundle of joy is born. You will feel like pulling the hair off your head yet will have smiles and a glow when you talk about your baby. Yes, you will be tired and sleep deprived but it will be all worth it, and you still can look radiant while nursing your baby.
Here is the secret to being a new mom and loving every minute of it.
Relish the Moment
Just look at your baby when he or she is asleep, see the innocence of that little angle will make your heart mellow. Pat yourself on the back and say you brought him or her into this world. Relish that moment and what you behold in front of you; it is a miracle, and you do not want to miss the miracle of that moment.
Take it One day at a Time
You should relish every day that goes by, from the time you welcomed your baby into this world and held him or her in your hands. The first day will give you a rush of joy and tear will run down your cheeks when you remember what you went through just to be a mother. Yes, the days may seem tough but already went through a tough period; likewise, you get through the tough days of nursing. Soon your little angle will be doing to preschool and soccer practice.
If you focus on staying healthy, you will be doing it for both you and your baby. Feeling healthy will help you stay with high spirits. Good nutrition and exercising will help to elevate your mood. Take a walk when your bundle of joy is napping, do some stretches and you soon be in your former shape and fitness levels.
Schedule your Life
Taking care of a newborn is a full-time job; one that demands your attention. As such, you need to schedule your life. Avoid rushing to get back to your professional working life. Do not take up any new project even in your home. Just focus on being a new mom and enjoy the time you have nurturing and nursing your little angle, it is a miracle of the moment that will soon be a memory.
Watch this video to see how I organize my life using my Filofax.;) I am a fan of Carlie and I have learned how to schedule important things/events using my planner by watching her videos.
Remember to Do “YOU”
As mentioned, being a new mother is a full-time job with no coffee breaks or weekends off. Nevertheless, you still need to remember to do something that makes your feel happy, taking your mind off the stress of nursing. Let your intentions of being an excellent caregiver be for both your new baby and you. You can ask daddy to have an hour of taking care of the baby every day, and you can have a nice long relaxing soak in the tub reading all by yourself or do anything that you love. In my case, I like sewing,cooking and gardening so my craft room is my escape.;)